Guys who massage my belly, who grab handfuls of my ass, who bury themselves between my breasts. I had no idea what to expect on the dating scene. He just looked at me and shrugged and smiled and said "confidence is sexy.
I dubbed my "year of fucking recreationally" and set out to find some hot, sweaty, messy, dirty, uncomplicated fun with like-minded friends. And find it I did!
I am fiercely intelligent, deeply hilarious, casually stylish, utterly unselfconscious and really, genuinely nice. He is the absolute whole package -- smart, successful, a hell of a nice guy, not to mention extremely handsome with the gym-perfected body of a Greek god.
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I wear size 28 clothing. Some have developed into lovely ongoing sexual friendships, and some were deliciously filthy little adventures where we never laid eyes on one another again after we parted ways. One such friend tells me that he long ago stopped approaching women he was attracted to in bars.
To them, my sex appeal has more to do with my spirit of adventure and capacity for joyous abandon than the composition of my body. That is not to say that I think there is anything creepy about being attracted to my body type.
Innocent enough, I suppose, but not sufficiently fulfilling from my perspective for me to be bothered. It had been many years since I had dated, and although I have been fat my whole adult life, my body now is larger than the one I had when I was last single.
That friend belongs to the last group of guys, and I would say it is the largest one I encounter. When I began this journey of discovery earlier this year I might have been one of them.
Comments Early last year I ended a monogamous relationship with someone I had been with for more than a decade. To my surprise, he was incredibly into me, and continues to be to this day. I realize that my lifestyle is not for everyone, and I would never try to assert that it should be.
Perhaps that would allow them to check off two boxes at once. Probably my favourite guys are those who find me really, really physically attractive and have no problem owning that desire. The most common reaction he would receive was one of anger from women who were so conditioned to believe in their own unattractiveness that they automatically assumed he was making fun of them.
Guys who are openminded to all kinds of sexiness. And no matter what anyone else has been telling you, so do you. In the aftermath of the breakup I decided that what I most wanted at this stage in my life was sex, and lots of it. The kind of guy who can pretty much have his pick of women.
We were lying in bed one night after some of the best sex of either of our lives and I asked him what it was that had attracted him to me in the first place. Because whatever I look like, I have a right to pursue pleasure without shame.
I am also an absolute riot in the sack. Much more toxic are the "attracted but ashamed" guys who chat me up on occasion. He is a quite a conventionally attractive man, with an extremely muscular build, and his preference is for women of my size or even larger.
They are the living embodiment of the old joke, "What do a fat chick and a moped have in common?
Guys who love my softness. To them, I am not a person as much as an assembly of measurements and body parts. But at this moment, I am having a great time having exactly the kind of sex I want. Unless you think such things are mutually exclusive, I would describe myself as reasonably pretty, in a natural, low-maintenance, naughty librarian kind of way.
All were honest expressions of my current sexuality. You go have your fun and let me have mine. Everyone involved has been a consenting adult, communication about expectations and boundaries was clear, and safeguarding my sexual health is always at the forefront of my mind.
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